By Kevin Lole
Orlando Cruz will fight Orlando Salido in Las Vegas (Getty Images)
LAS VEGAS – A year ago, Orlando Cruz had come
to something of a crossroads. A member of the 2000 Puerto Rican Olympic boxing
team, he'd won his first 12 pro bouts and 18 of his first 21.
By all accounts, he was on a path to a world
title. He wasn't a particularly big puncher, but he was smart in the ring. He
had that sixth sense about when a punch was coming and how to get away from it.
He was clever and cunning and had the ability to dictate the way a match
unfolded.
Cruz, though, wasn't completely at
ease.
Cruz will bring a 20-2-1 record with 10 knockouts into his fight with Salido (Getty Images)
He is gay, and proudly so, and
wanted to share the news with the world. Ever since he left the Olympics, there
had been suspicions about his orientation. He knew it. He'd hear the gay slurs
coming from a fight crowd, directed not only at him, but toward anyone they
didn't believe was fearless enough, tough enough.
"Boxing is a macho sport,
everyone yelling gay slurs all the time," he said.
He was through living a lie, trying
to pretend he is someone other than who he is. He wanted to tell the world his
secret, but it was hard to work up the nerve.
Here was a guy who is tough enough
to stand across from the hardest-hitting fighters in his division and go
toe-to-toe with them, fearful about what a bigoted, thoughtless person might
shout from the safety of a crowd in a lame and cowardly attempt to demean him.
Orlando Cruz Media Workout (Getty Images)
"I was scared," said Cruz, who admitted he saw a psychologist in
New York to help him work through his feelings. "I was worried about other
boxers. I was worried about the fans. I would cry many, many nights thinking
about it."
After the toughest fight of his life – the battle within him – he decided to
finally break the secret. On Oct. 4, 2012, Cruz told the world what he had
known for years, that he is gay. He became the first openly gay man in
professional boxing, a sport not exactly overrun with people known for
tolerance and understanding.
Since that announcement, Cruz has won back-to-back fights and he'll carry a
20-2-1 mark and 10 knockouts to the ring when he meets Orlando Salido for the
vacant WBO featherweight belt Saturday at the Thomas & Mack Center.
By speaking a few short words, a great burden was lifted from Cruz's
shoulders. He proposed to his boyfriend, Jose Manuel, earlier this year on
Facebook, and the couple is set to be married next month in New York.
Cruz's fear that he would become the target of angry boxing fans never
materialized. The LGBT community embraced him, and on June 18 in Chicago, he
was a part of the first class of the National Gay and Lesbian Sports Hall of
Fame. He was inducted alongside such luminaries as tennis stars Billie Jean
King and Martina Navratilova, diver Greg Louganis and NBA player Jason Collins.
Salido, as tough and hard-nosed a competitor as there is in the game,
essentially shrugged when asked about fighting an openly gay opponent.
Salido professed his respect for Cruz for having the courage to come out of
the closet, but otherwise, saw little noteworthy about it.
"We are just two human beings fighting for a world title," Salido
said.
Salido, of course, is
correct. No one should have to hide who they are, to feel afraid to be
themselves. There are people who say their religious beliefs forbid
homosexuality, but thousands of people have given their lives for our right to
be free and to make those personal choices. Those who disagree have a right to
their opinion, but not a right to abuse, to hate, to mock.
It's not going to be a breeze for
Cruz going forward, because there will always be someone who wants to impose
his or her beliefs.
Cruz said on Monday, "I am a
man. I am not a girl. I have to fight on Saturday night."
That's the kind of a statement made
by someone who has endured years of abuse.
The good thing, though, is that there
has been at least grudging acceptance. He's here to fight, and wasn't
interested in talking at length about his personal life.
He praised Salido's ability and said
he'd have to be "intelligent all the time, very smart, and give him [a lot
of lateral] movement" in order to win.
He's probably always going to be the
guy with the asterisk after his name: Orlando Cruz, first openly gay fighter.
Still, there are encouraging signs.
Since his psychologist convinced him
to speak freely, the hostility that Cruz was fearful of hasn't really been
there.
"He made me feel better about
it and that is how I made the decision to come out," Cruz said of his
psychologist. "He made me ready. Since I made the announcement, I have
been getting nothing but support. I am happy. I am free. I am comfortable.
"Everybody gives me support and
respect. When I interview with a newspaper, I would just like to have respect.
Now, when I walk into the ring, I feel I have the support of a lot of people
[in the LGBT community], and it makes me very happy."